Love…
Just because you love a person and they don’t love you, it doesn’t make you less of a person. Just because someone else sees you as un-valuable it doesn’t mean you’re not. People that are insecure/unconfident about their importance in life need to be loved by people to give people love. But when you’ve realized that YOU ARE SOMEBODY regardless of what people think it’s not such a great loss on your part not to be loved in return but on their part.
Showing love isn’t a sign of weakness or inferiority. It’s not a sign of submission to man but to God, and it IS a sign of maturity… It’s an immature game not to show love because someone else didn’t love you (thank God that he didn’t do that to us). Pride is what waits for others to love us before we love them, but if we realize who we are and what Jesus Christ has given us we would see that we have love in excess to give.
You’ve made that person a god/idle when you wait for their approval to feel qualified, or you wait for them to acknowledge you to feel special. Don’t see yourself through peoples’ eyes but through Gods’.
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Even children have a easier time loving others than most people, that’s why if we don’t become as little children we won’t make it to heaven -Luke18:17. Don’t wait for others to call you, you call them. Don’t wait for others to greet you, you greet them.